Maybe this heart of yours that
longs for something more is being prepared for something so much greater than
you." ― Morgan Harper Nichols
Self-love can be quite an elusive word despite it being a
mainstream topic in a world dreary of the hustle and bustle of daily life. The
need for it has grown exponentially, and creators in different platforms have
carved out a niche in this topic, empowering people to embrace it.
But these picture-perfect depictions of self-love also
put unnatural pressure on this mindful and, most of the time, painful process.
Yes, self-love can
manifest in many forms; sometimes, it's as simple as binging a TV series
after an exhausting work week. It can also be a pleasant afternoon with a book
in solitude. But above all else, self-love can also be about being accountable
and bearing the pain throughout.
It doesn't always
have to be Instagram worthy.
These crystals that you will read here may seem like a
frivolous form of practicing self-love, but these are not merely decorations to
make you feel better. Crystals are not
just trinkets; they are from the Earth, emanating different energies.
They are as
ancient as the Earth itself.
Many people might argue how you harness crystals to your
benefit, but the main takeaway with crystal
healing is that you make it a tangible anchor in your life when everything just
doesn't seem to fall into place.
It might not be perfect for everyone, but it is a
tangible form of hope that promises to accompany you all throughout your
process. You just have to embrace it and harness it as you deem fit in your
life.
5 Best Crystals for Self Love
Moonstone
A
calming stone that brings forth the nurturing energy of the Moon. Just like the
ever-changing phases of this lunar planet, so are we subjected to change.
As
you begin your journey towards self-love, you first have to learn how to
embrace stillness. For
it is only when you finally silence the inner critic within that you begin to
step into new beginnings.
Self-love
may often be associated with external pleasures, but you first have to heal
your inner world through realignment. Moonstone's healing properties offer you the opportunity to
bring emotional solitude to your healing journey.
Rhodonite
Known as the "Rescue Stone," Rhodonite is a crystal
for self-love through forgiveness. Once you have gone through the stillness
offered by Moonstone, you can start to acknowledge the wounds and trauma you
have in your heart.
In this stage, Rhodonite's healing properties allow you to process the facets of your pain. There is no
better way to practice self-love than to first forgive yourself.
Forgive yourself for not acknowledging your own pain. Forgive
yourself for those regretful decisions you can no longer undo. Forgive yourself
for compromising too much of your healing for the sake of other people.
It's not an easy process because it requires you to delve deep
into the murky waters of your pain.
But you have to face your wounds, hover your hands in those
emotions that you thought were gone into oblivion. Make an effort to expose
your pain because no one will do it for you.
It may be difficult at first, but just remember that you can
effectively pinpoint how to heal yourself once you have finally acknowledged
your pain.
So, no matter how ridiculous you may feel when you're just
starting this process, just remember that you are not alone. Forgive
yourself, and you'll soon feel your heart lighten.
Aventurine
This
crystal for self-love emanates the healing green energy of the heart chakra.
Oftentimes, Aventurine is known for bringing success and opportunities when it
comes to career.
But
beyond its ability to attract abundance, this healing crystal also aids in
guarding your heart.
Once
you've started to acknowledge your pain and work on patching yourself up,
you'll soon feel whole again. But no matter how you are committed to carving
your own space of self-love, it's crucial that you also set firm boundaries.
Aventurine's healing properties aid you in blocking off energy
vampires. These
people are the ones that you'd often call for, a lack of a better word,
"toxic." They are the ones that feed off your energy by gaslighting
you, bringing you down through microaggressions, or just plainly taking
advantage of you.
It's
high time that you protect your energy. You can't just fall on the same
destructive patterns and expect yourself to undergo the painful healing process
with yourself again.
You
don't owe anyone your time or your energy. Prioritize your healing first, and
if people will choose to violate your boundaries instead, then it's probably
time to let go of them.
Because
these are the kinds of people that don't value your healing process. They don't
respect your own decisions and only expect you to adjust to their needs, demands,
and desires.
You
are more than just a convenient person that caters to them. You owe yourself
healing and not them.
Rose Quartz
By
far, the most popular healing crystal of love, Rose Quartz, imbibes you with
nurturing energy within. As opposed to what other people might think of this
crystal, Rose Quartz doesn't merely attract love.
Instead,
it allows you to be more receptive to beauty and love. Rose Quartz's healing
properties are faceted when it comes to healing the heart.
Whenever
bitterness has grown to fester in your heart, Rose Quartz enables you to
appreciate the little things in your life. It helps you to open your heart once
again to love by allowing you to bask in the beauty of life.
It
may seem idealistic at first, but the healing properties of Rose Quartz do
bring harmony in your emotional ties, both within you and towards your
relationships.
Whenever
you feel as if you're unworthy of love or just plain bitter with everything in
your life, Rose Quartz can help you embrace love once again.
It
doesn't necessarily have to be romantic love, but simply acceptance of
yourself.
Labradorite
Last
but definitely not the least is the transformative Labradorite. This magical
crystal is often associated with new beginnings and taps on your hidden
potential.
This
may not be the typical crystal when it comes to self-love, but what better way
to bring love within than by letting yourself be open to transformative
changes?
When
you desire to heal yourself, the last step for you to finally move on from past
hurts is through stepping on the gateway of change.
You
can't always go through the same old destructive patterns. Once you start
healing yourself, you'll soon realize the importance of shedding the negativity
in your life.
Labradorite
permits you to finally embrace change and the cathartic release of energies
that no longer serve you.
Crystal
healing may be an ancient practice, but as it finally has gained back attention
in the mainstream in this time, people can benefit from their prowess with no
stigma.
Take
these crystals with you wherever you may be currently in your life. Harness
them as you see fit, and remember that these are only mediums that can help you
out.
However,
crystals have specific treatments that you might want to know, like activating crystals and
cleansing them. Taking care of your crystals is a wonderful practice as you
become closer to them and share their energy in the process.
In
your healing journey of self-love, always remember that it may be difficult at
first, but just take your time and know that you're not alone.
"When you start to feel
like things should have been better this year, remember the mountains and
valleys that got you here. They are not accidents, and those moments weren't in
vain. You are not the same. You have grown, and you are growing. You are
breathing; you are living, you are wrapped in endless, boundless grace. And
things will get better. There is more to you than yesterday."
― Morgan Harper Nichols
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